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Love is something that people really should treasure, that people should really respect. I don't think some people think love is something worth while. I know that from past experiences that love is so very different from lust. Lust is just a short-term relationship at the most. But when lust never turns into love and you're still with each other after a number of years. What exactly is that? How can you have kids and still say you love each other, when it's pretty obvious that you don't. If you are always arguing and complaining about each other, it just proves that you lust each other, or maybe are better off as friends.

I can't get my head around the fact that when people are in a relationship that they take advantage of the other person or depend on them way too much. You had a great thing going, what went wrong? Why do you say you've already eaten, when you haven't, even though he made a nice candle-lit dinner for you? It's not fair. This is not real love.

Real love is out there though. Look at Charles and Alli from YouTube, you can see from their faces and the way they look at each other, that they really, really do love and care for each other. This is the love I want. I want to be so in love that I would be willing to jump sky-dive for my partner. I know this takes time and effort, but I'm willing and ready.

I can't love someone just for the sake of it. On Facebook, my friend Matt* didn't have a relationship status. His friend David* began chatting with me. After a while David said he was kinda seeing Matt.  But Matt had been flirting with me a lot. So I asked Matt what was the deal with him and David, he said they were kinda seeing each other a couple of months ago. But nothing really came of it. Matt added his relationship status: "Single". (Waffle, waffle, waffle) Anyway, David said he was single for like a week. And it just seemed like he moved onto "the next one", and that he's got a list of people he wants a relationship with. That kind of disturbs me. My point is, I can't say I love someone when I really don't.

Happy Friday.